Since the beginning of recorded history women were subjugated and defamed. They were considered the cause and the curse of mankind. Today we feel that we have overcome this historical betrayal, however, statistics are showing us something different. There are many kinds of betrayals and 95% of us will experience some form of betrayal at least once in our lifetime. And this will continue to happen until women recognize how they betray themselves. As a result we will be raising men who have little power, motivation, and strength. If we want to save the world…it starts with us: the creators, mothers, daughters, and sisters. In this talk I will present: the symptoms and signs of self-betrayal and how it affects our lives today, share the antidote to this inner betrayal, and provide three steps to healing this unconscious legacy